How I Do My Divorce Coaching

I work with men and women to save relationships, and if they cannot be saved to navigate the

stormy seas of separation and difficult conversations with clarity, calm, and confidence.

Divorce Coaching with Eve Stanway

Clarity, compassion, and calm – at every stage of your separation journey.

Divorce and separation are not just legal processes. They are emotional transitions that touch every part of your life – your identity, your family, your confidence, and your future. Whether you are trying to avoid divorce, sensing its approach, navigating the day-to-day reality, or learning how to move forward afterwards, I offer steady, personalised support to help you make sense of it all and take the next step with courage.

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Here is how we can work together – wherever you find yourself right now.

Support at Every Stage

Avoiding Divorce

If you are on the edge of separation and still hoping to repair the relationship, I can help you explore what is really happening beneath the surface. Together, we look at patterns of communication, unmet needs, and emotional dynamics – so you can make decisions with greater clarity and confidence, whatever direction you choose.

Facing the Possibility of Divorce

When you start to sense that things are changing – even if nothing has been said out loud – it can be confusing and emotionally exhausting. I help you recognise what is unfolding, prepare practically, and take care of your emotional wellbeing, so that you are not caught unprepared.

In the Middle of Divorce

If you are in the thick of it – the legal processes, the emotional intensity, the fear of how it will affect your children – I am here to help you breathe, plan, and take action. Together we will manage the overwhelm, support your children with clarity and care, and create practical steps that bring a sense of steadiness, even in uncertainty.

After Divorce

Once the papers are signed, the work is often just beginning. Post-divorce life can bring new challenges – co-parenting struggles, communication issues, or simply figuring out who you are now. I support you to create healthy boundaries, rebuild trust in yourself, and find a new rhythm that feels right for you and your family.

clients feedback

rock solid trust in my services

James C

Reflecting on my journey so far, I am really happy with how far I have come and don’t know if I would have had the self-belief to have gotten here without your help.

So, I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you and let you know that I am really grateful for the work we did together.

Duncan J

Eve has helped me traverse the breakup of my marriage and subsequent divorce process. But also, through counselling recognise the reasons as to why it happened. To ensure that I will not fall back into old patterns of behaviour in the times ahead.

So that my future of co-parenting is a healthy and positive one. Eve has a calm but direct approach when dealing with the delicate divorce process. I truly believe that my situation would be an incredibly negative one if it weren’t for her knowledge and guidance.

Mark R

Real men don’t need therapy…’ yes I was a sceptic, and when we meet for that first session I was totally broken. Since then you have given prospective, support, guidance, and challenged me through those darkest and scariest of times. I well be forever grateful for the insight and tools you have empowered me with, that allow me to once again to embrace life and thrive.

Sara J

"Wounds can become Wisdom with the right perspective”.

Thank you for being the right person to show me a new “perspective”. I often think how different my mind and life could be if you hadn't been there at my side. You helped me become whole again!

Who we are

Tecknik

“Navigating the storm of divorce requires not only resilience but also the courage to embrace change and envision a brighter future.”

Our Story

What is NABERS UK?

NABERS UK is a rating system for the energy efficiency of office buildings across England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland.

Unlike other UK schemes such as EPCs or BREEAM, NABERS UK combines the actual energy consumption of commercial offices with other parameters such as area and operating hours. This results in a rating from 1 star (inefficient) to 6 stars (market leading efficiency), which in turn allows for true apples-for-apples energy performance comparisons between properties.

To ensure scheme integrity, NABERS UK is administered by BRE and ratings can only be performed by NABERS UK certified assessors.

Our experience

Technik were licensed for NABERS UK as of October 2022. Our management team has performed over 50 NABERS Australia ratings from 2012 through 2015. The rules have changed little over the past decade but the methodology is near-identical between NABERS Australia and NABERS UK.

The team have exclusively managed the rating and submission process for Charter Hall from 2012 through 2015. This involved approximately 25 ratings per year with circa 5-6 assessors. They identified building rating “weak” points and worked with Charter Hall to rectify, improving ratings at no to low cost. They also implemented a series of documentation collation processes to streamline annual data collection.

What Support with Me Feels Like

Steady, clear, and deeply personal – this is not just support, it is transformation.

Working together is not about quick fixes – it is about giving you back your voice, helping you see the choices you have, and walking with you as you rebuild something new. Over time, you will begin to feel:

Heard and Understood – This is your space to speak freely. I listen without judgement, holding your story with care and helping you find the words that have felt too difficult to say.

Empowered – Through tailored strategies and gentle but practical tools, you will begin to feel more in control – able to respond rather than react, and to make decisions that align with your values.

Supported – Separation can feel incredibly lonely, even when others are around. I am here to walk alongside you – someone who understands the emotional and practical realities and will not disappear when it gets hard.

Confident – With clarity comes confidence. My role is to help you reconnect with your own strength, so you can face what is ahead with resilience and trust in yourself.

The Value of Coaching, Psychotherapy, and Psychology

One conversation, three dimensions of support – emotional, practical, and psychological.

Separation affects every layer of life – how you feel, how you function, and how you relate to the people around you. I bring together the depth of psychotherapy, the clarity of coaching, and the insight of psychology to offer a grounded and flexible approach, tailored to you.

Together, we work in a way that reflects your whole experience – not just one part of it. By focusing on the task, managing emotions, and clarifying the process divorce coaching will save you both time and unnecessary legal and other costs.

Emotional steadiness – Therapeutic support creates a calm, confidential space to process grief, anger, anxiety, and uncertainty – helping you regulate emotion rather than feel overwhelmed by it.

Practical focus – Coaching offers structure and strategy. We make sense of the immediate demands – whether that is communicating with a solicitor, setting boundaries with a former partner, or creating a parenting plan.

Deeper understanding – Psychological insight helps you notice what drives your choices, respond more wisely to others, and gently shift the patterns that no longer serve you.

Support That Moves With You

As you find your footing, we focus on what will genuinely help – day by day, stage by stage.

Clearer communication – Learn to express yourself without defensiveness or fear, so that your voice can be heard – even in emotionally charged conversations.

Emotional resilience – Develop tools to stay grounded and calm, especially when things feel uncertain or intense.

Meaningful direction – Set goals that reflect your values, honour your responsibilities, and begin to shape the future you want for yourself and your family.

Healthier co-parenting – Create a more manageable relationship with your child’s other parent, even if that connection is difficult or strained – always with your child’s wellbeing at the centre.

Working with me means you are not just reacting to what is happening – you are choosing to engage with it in a way that brings more strength, more insight, and more self-trust.

You do not need to do this alone. I am here to walk with you – step by step – until you feel steadier, clearer, and ready for what comes next.

Being experienced with both the NABERS process as well as large and varied commercial portfolios, Technik can provide the following:

• Holistic process development from the start with day 1 identification of potential rating complications.

• Minimal labour drain on site management and engineers.

• Optimal NABERS UK star ratings

• Development of a “rating improvement schedule”, whereby barriers to higher ratings (e.g., poor lease terminology) are identified for future correction.

• Sub-metering installation guidance to improve ratings.

• Low-cost pre-assessment ratings i.e., pre-market visibility ratings.

Energy Auditing

Technik are experienced at designing, controlling and optimising the built environment. We understand the difficulties associated with minimising our energy and carbon footprints in the ongoing pursuit of a more comfortable built environment. With our experience in new technology implementation, engineering design, and built environment auditing, we believe we have the foundations to provide impact Energy Audits for a variety of built environments.

Our personnel have operated within the energy optimisation sector of the built environment for over a decade.

We focus on collecting live site data to identify energy optimisation initiatives and utilising empirical data to support theoretical calculations. We are data agnostic and will collect any and all relevant data from site in our pursuit to identify energy optimisation initiatives, and more importantly, validate these initiatives once enacted.

We have a broad skill set that builds upwards from on-site asset specification and installation, through to systems infrastructure design and BMS programming, and on onwards to high level reporting for schemes such as ESOS and SECR. This experience allows us to identify more feasible energy initiatives from the start, with less time spent pursuing non-viable initiatives.