How I Do My Divorce Coaching

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At Eve Stanway Divorce Coaching, I recognise the profound emotional and practical challenges accompanying divorce and separation. Whether you are trying to avoid divorce, sensing its inevitability, feeling overwhelmed by the process, or dealing with post-divorce issues such as co-parenting, my goal is to guide you through every stage with empathy, expertise, and personalised support. Here’s how working with me can transform your experience and provide you with invaluable support.

Understanding and Navigating the Pain Points

Avoiding Divorce: If you’re on the brink of separation and hoping to avoid divorce, I offer support to help you understand the underlying issues, improve communication, and find potential resolutions. By addressing the root causes of conflict, you can gain clarity and make informed decisions about your relationship’s future.

Recognising the Signs: If you sense that divorce is imminent, it can be confusing and stressful. I help you recognise and interpret these signs, providing the tools to prepare emotionally and practically, ensuring you are not caught off guard.

In the Midst of Divorce: When divorce feels like a whirlwind and you’ve lost control, my coaching offers a lifeline. Together, we will develop strategies to manage the chaos, regain control, and navigate the legal and emotional hurdles confidently and comprehensively, including how to talk to the children and support them through family changes.

Post-Divorce Challenges: After the dust settles, issues like co-parenting and ongoing communication problems can cause stress. I provide ongoing support to help you establish healthy boundaries, improve co-parenting dynamics, and foster positive communication.

clients feedback

rock solid trust in my services

James C

Reflecting on my journey so far, I am really happy with how far I have come and don’t know if I would have had the self-belief to have gotten here without your help.

So, I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you and let you know that I am really grateful for the work we did together.

Duncan J

Eve has helped me traverse the breakup of my marriage and subsequent divorce process. But also, through counselling recognise the reasons as to why it happened. To ensure that I will not fall back into old patterns of behaviour in the times ahead.

So that my future of co-parenting is a healthy and positive one. Eve has a calm but direct approach when dealing with the delicate divorce process. I truly believe that my situation would be an incredibly negative one if it weren’t for her knowledge and guidance.

Mark R

Real men don’t need therapy…’ yes I was a sceptic, and when we meet for that first session I was totally broken. Since then you have given prospective, support, guidance, and challenged me through those darkest and scariest of times. I well be forever grateful for the insight and tools you have empowered me with, that allow me to once again to embrace life and thrive.

Sara J

"Wounds can become Wisdom with the right perspective”.

Thank you for being the right person to show me a new “perspective”. I often think how different my mind and life could be if you hadn't been there at my side. You helped me become whole again!

Who we are

Tecknik

“Navigating the storm of divorce requires not only resilience but also the courage to embrace change and envision a brighter future.”

Our Story

What is NABERS UK?

NABERS UK is a rating system for the energy efficiency of office buildings across England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland.

Unlike other UK schemes such as EPCs or BREEAM, NABERS UK combines the actual energy consumption of commercial offices with other parameters such as area and operating hours. This results in a rating from 1 star (inefficient) to 6 stars (market leading efficiency), which in turn allows for true apples-for-apples energy performance comparisons between properties.

To ensure scheme integrity, NABERS UK is administered by BRE and ratings can only be performed by NABERS UK certified assessors.

Our experience

Technik were licensed for NABERS UK as of October 2022. Our management team has performed over 50 NABERS Australia ratings from 2012 through 2015. The rules have changed little over the past decade but the methodology is near-identical between NABERS Australia and NABERS UK.

The team have exclusively managed the rating and submission process for Charter Hall from 2012 through 2015. This involved approximately 25 ratings per year with circa 5-6 assessors. They identified building rating “weak” points and worked with Charter Hall to rectify, improving ratings at no to low cost. They also implemented a series of documentation collation processes to streamline annual data collection.

Transformational Support and How It Will Feel

Working with me will transform your experience by giving you a sense of control, clarity, and confidence. You will feel:

Heard and Understood: My empathetic approach validates your feelings and experiences, giving you a safe space to express yourself.

– Empowered: With tailored strategies and practical tools, you’ll feel more in control of your situation and better equipped to make informed decisions.

– Supported: Knowing that you have a coach who understands both the emotional and practical aspects of divorce can alleviate feelings of isolation and overwhelm.

– Confident: My guidance will help you build confidence in your ability to handle challenges and face the future with resilience.

The Value of Coaching, Psychotherapy, and Psychology

I offer a comprehensive approach to your divorce journey by combining coaching, psychotherapy, and psychology. This multi-faceted support system addresses your emotional well-being and practical needs, ensuring you are equipped to handle every aspect of the process. The benefits include:

– Emotional Resilience: Techniques from psychotherapy help you manage stress, anxiety, and emotional triggers.

– Practical Strategies: Coaching provides actionable plans and strategies to tackle immediate challenges and long-term goals including legal issues, finances and child care.

– Deep Understanding: Insights from psychology allow for a deeper understanding of behaviours, helping to improve communication and relationships.

 Comprehensive Support for Every Stage

Together, we will work on:

– Effective Communication: Developing skills to express your needs clearly and confidently, reducing conflict and misunderstandings.

– Emotional Management: Techniques to maintain stability and resilience during highly emotional times.

– Goal Setting: Creating achievable goals that align with your values and aspirations, providing a clear path forward.

– Co-Parenting Strategies: Establishing healthy co-parenting relationships and effective communication techniques to ensure the well-being of your children.

By choosing Eve Stanway Divorce Coaching, you are investing in a supportive and transformative experience that will help you navigate the complexities of divorce and emerge stronger and more focused on your future.

Being experienced with both the NABERS process as well as large and varied commercial portfolios, Technik can provide the following:

• Holistic process development from the start with day 1 identification of potential rating complications.

• Minimal labour drain on site management and engineers.

• Optimal NABERS UK star ratings

• Development of a “rating improvement schedule”, whereby barriers to higher ratings (e.g., poor lease terminology) are identified for future correction.

• Sub-metering installation guidance to improve ratings.

• Low-cost pre-assessment ratings i.e., pre-market visibility ratings.

Energy Auditing

Technik are experienced at designing, controlling and optimising the built environment. We understand the difficulties associated with minimising our energy and carbon footprints in the ongoing pursuit of a more comfortable built environment. With our experience in new technology implementation, engineering design, and built environment auditing, we believe we have the foundations to provide impact Energy Audits for a variety of built environments.

Our personnel have operated within the energy optimisation sector of the built environment for over a decade.

We focus on collecting live site data to identify energy optimisation initiatives and utilising empirical data to support theoretical calculations. We are data agnostic and will collect any and all relevant data from site in our pursuit to identify energy optimisation initiatives, and more importantly, validate these initiatives once enacted.

We have a broad skill set that builds upwards from on-site asset specification and installation, through to systems infrastructure design and BMS programming, and on onwards to high level reporting for schemes such as ESOS and SECR. This experience allows us to identify more feasible energy initiatives from the start, with less time spent pursuing non-viable initiatives.